WHY WE GET STUCKED?

The truth is that we all have the Entrepreneur skill, we all know how to start out. It was battle royal among over a million sperms before you finally succeeded in becoming a baby. Likewise it took a lot of start up strength or energy for a baby to walk on her two feet. Observing my first daughter walk, I discovered why a lot of people don’t get result always. The truth is that there is no total failure; you definitely had experienced some successes in the past. If you carry out a careful assessment of your life, you will discover that you have done before what you thought could not be done sometimes in the past.

But to be a winner, or dominate in life, past victories don’t really count. They are only good as nuggets or catalyst for that victory you need to have now. The secret I am about to reveal, is the reason we always get result when it is a matter of life and death. We always get the desired result when there is a deadline.

Who is a winner? `A winner is someone that is focused on the end product rather than the process. While my daughter was learning how to walk, I discovered so many times that she would try to walk but fall. These falls, sometimes are fatal she would cry and sometimes sustain injuries. I also discover she kept trying, and she was getting better until she could walk, run and jump.

So I learnt the lesson that growth could be painful. So if in your past attempt at getting result, you refused to keep the memory of the end product which is your achievement, the accomplishment. But chose to store the pain involved in the process. So incase the only experience you stored about the process of growth is pain. So anytime the opportunity for growth presents itself, the painful experiences flashes, therefore a retreat to your comfort zone.

But if you understand that the pain is for a moment, that the result is more important than the pain. You will grasp the opportunity that life is presenting you. You have a choice, this system will never change; you are the one that will have to change.